Monday, 23 December 2013

Christmas - what's the good news?

As the years march on and you get more and more Christmas’ under your belt, do you feel they all start to blend into one mass of the same traditions and events?  We could almost predict how Christmas would look with the adverts starting in October, 'Once in Royal David City' sung at every service, and the mad dash for presents on Christmas Eve.  And I think that in all the traditions, all the familiarity, all the predictability we can be at danger of missing the incredible story that is the nativity.  There is nothing like it.  It is gripping, full of surprise and intrigue and completely unexpected.  

The unexpected is right there from the beginning.  This story of the birth of Jesus starts with the scandal of a virgin becoming pregnant and an engagement almost broken.  It continues with the trauma of a young couple being uprooted from their home town for the sake of a government census.  It culminates in the birth happening in a place with no home comforts and the baby being laid in a feeding trough because there was no room anywhere else.  However, the most incredible details of this story are not the unusual nature of the birth, the angelic announcement of his arrival or the fact shepherds were the first visitors to the baby.  No the most amazing details in this story are the reasons why it happened.  It is these reasons that stop the nativity becoming familiar, predictable or just another Christmas tradition.  In Luke 2v8-20, the angel's announcement to the shepherds, we discover some of these reasons as to why the nativity is an incredible story.

Firstly, this is an incredible story because it is good news.  Why?  Because the angel proclaimed it would would bring great joy for all people, as there will be peace for those on whom God’s favour rest.  This story is good news because it brings with it the hope of peace with God.  

At various points in the Bible our relationship with God is described in terms of extreme enmity.  We were his enemies.  There was a war raging.  In essence the angel’s announcement is like the declaration of armistice of the 11th Nov 1918, and that announcement caused great rejoicing across the land.  Rightly so, it was good news.  After 4 years of intensive fighting, war was over!  Peace was something to be shouted about.  Therefore if great celebration was the reaction to the end of an earthly war, how much more is an announcement that peace is possible between the creator God and his rebellious creation good news to be proclaimed?

But how is this peace possible?  Did God decide to ‘let us off the hook’?  No, absolutely not.  Instead, we read in Luke, God had a plan for peace to be made possible.  The birth of a saviour.  It was through this baby his plan to change the world came into being.  We had to wait over 30 years before we saw its fulfilment.  Isaiah 53v4-6 show us what Jesus had to do to achieve that peace, “Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted.  But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.  We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all.”

The baby was to grow up into a man who would die on a cross.  It was his horrific suffering and death that enabled God to proclaim peace through his angels to the shepherds and in turn to us.  This was not a case of God letting us off the hook, instead he can declare us at peace because the penalty for our crime had been paid.  It was paid through Jesus’ death on the cross.  

So the nativity is an incredible story of good news about the birth of a saviour whose death promised peace.  And if we respond in any other way than how the shepherd’s responded, we have missed the amazing nature of this story.  In verses 15-20 we read what they did.  Verse 17 says, “When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child”.  This news was so amazing that they couldn’t keep it to themselves.  They were the first evangelists!  

But not only did the shepherds tell others, they praised God.  Verse 20 says, “The shepherds went back to their flocks, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen. It was just as the angel had told them.”  Once they had learnt the truth of the angel’s message, they knew they had to give God glory for the incredible news they had experienced.  The overflow of a heart which has met Jesus is a mouth full of praise for God. 

So this Christmas I want to encourage you not to let the familiarity of the Christmas story dull you to the incredible message it contains.  And if you, like the shepherds have seen the truth for yourself, don’t keep it to yourselves.  Look for ways to share with friends, family and neighbours.  Tell it out, because people need to hear.  Let’s make this time of year one full of praise for God and may we proclaim with the angels, “Glory to God in the highest heaven”.

Tuesday, 10 December 2013

Meet the women at Charlotte - Miriam


This post marks the next in a series of interviews with different women who are part of the Charlotte Chapel family.  We hope to allow you to hear a little about the different lives we live, what makes us tick and how we seek to grow in our faith.  This time, we would like you to meet Miriam.

Q: Thank you for sharing something of your story Miriam. Could you tell us your favourite Christian song or hymn so readers can listen while they read on?
A : Hmm. There are many!  However, the song that I had at my baptism and that I just keep coming back to is 'In Christ Alone' so I would probably go for that one.

Q: Can you tell us how you became a Christian?
A: I grew up in a Christian family - parents, brother, grandparents, aunts, uncles & cousins! - and my parents work in full-time ministry.  So from day dot I have both continually heard about God's love, grace & mercy and seen it reflected in the lives of those closest to me. There isn't really a time when I can pinpoint a transition from unbelief to belief.  However, it was when I was primary school aged that I realised the need for a personal relationship with Christ.  At that point I shared a bedroom with my brother so I remember curling up under my pink duvet cover one night & asking Jesus to forgive my sins & come into my heart.

Q: What would be your desert island book? (we'll let you take the Bible of course!)
A: Les Miserables - I have been slowly plodding through it off & on since before the film came out, perhaps some time on a desert island would help me to finish!

Q. Where is your favourite place to be?
A: That's a tricky one!  If I say that I was born in England, attended high school in Wales and have a good dose of both Scottish and Northern Irish blood you might begin to see why.  Between moving house and travelling to visit family & friends there are multiple places that feel like a piece of 'home' and where I enjoy being.  So it's hard to choose one and it probably changes depending on what is happening and who is at each location at a given time!  For the moment I am utterly thankful to be in Edinburgh.  It is a beautiful city that I never tire of exploring and my friends here & the church family at Charlotte have helped it to feel very much like home. 

Q: What is your signature dish in the kitchen?
A: Reading these questions first time round I honestly didn't think I had one.  I found my answer standing in the kitchen at the weekend making lasagne for the umpteenth time, barely looking at my bolognese splattered student cookbook.  It is by no means spectacular but it is my go-to at the moment.

Q:  We are asking everyone to share what they might be doing at 2pm on a Wednesday, to give us a flavour of the different lives we lead.
A: I started my PhD in September so on a typical Wednesday (most days, in fact!) you would probably find me at my desk or in the library, probably with a pile of papers and a selection of coloured pens to hand. 

Q: Finally, what brings you the greatest joy?
A: Definitely spending time with friends and family.  This could be catching up over tea & cake, visiting much-loved sites or an evening at the theatre.  The main feature would be time spent talking about everything and laughing about nothing with a fond friend!

Thanks to Miriam for sharing some of her story.  Do feel free to suggest other women who you would like to get to know through these interviews.

Thursday, 5 December 2013

Let's talk about sex - resources

Off the back the brunch here are a selection of books, blogs and sermons which are helpful and cover some of the issues we touched on.  If you have any other resources which you'd recommend, please email womenatchaarlotte@gmail.com.

Mark and Grace Driscoll's book 'Real Marriage' has a helpful section on sex.  Mark also preached sermon series on the Peasant Princess which brought up dozens of questions they felt they should respond to.  The result was this blog series - Christian Sex: Frank Answers to Honest Questions.  They suggest under 17's speak to a parent before reading.


John Piper has also preached two sermon which are definitely worth setting aside some time to listen to.  They are Sex and the single person and Sexual relations in marriage.  


God's design for Sex series by Stann and Brenna Jones is a series of book designed to help parents start conversations with their children.  There are four books covering age appropriate topics.

In Passion and Purity, Elizabeth Elliot guides singles of both genders and of any age on how to put their love lives under the authority of Jesus Christ.  Passion and Purity covers dating issues such as: how to know which person is the right one to marry; loving passionately while remaining sexually pure; the man's and woman's role in relationships; putting God's desires ahead of personal desires; how far is too far, physically.  Based on stories, journal entries, and letters chronicling her own five-year courtship with Jim Elliot, Elisabeth gives frank advice, scriptural directives, and compassionate examples of what it means to follow Christ in the midst of heartache and impatience.

Finally, two books about pornography.  Firstly, HELP! She's Struggling with Pornography redefines pornography in biblical terms and explores its dangers, including those of the socially acceptable forms particularly alluring to women. Learn how the Bible exposes the heart of the problem and provides abundant hope for freedom.  When Your Husband is Addicted to Pornography written by Vicki Tiede, from personal experience, gently guides women toward God and away from despair. Through daily readings and questions on six important topics: hope, surrender, trust, identity, brokenness, and forgiveness, you will grow in healing and hope.